Jesus’ discussion with Nicodemus yields one of the most famous verses in all of Scripture – so famous it shows up at football games! But it’s the verse AFTER it that really makes the difference.
John 3:14-21
[Jesus said,] 14And just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, 15that whoever believes in him may have eternal life. 16“For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. 17“Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. 18Those who believe in him are not condemned; but those who do not believe are condemned already, because they have not believed in the name of the only Son of God. 19And this is the judgment, that the light has come into the world, and people loved darkness rather than light because their deeds were evil. 20For all who do evil hate the light and do not come to the light, so that their deeds may not be exposed. 21But those who do what is true come to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that their deeds have been done in God.”
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Dear friends, grace to you and peace this day, from our God of infinite love through Christ who embodies that love. Amen.
For God so loved the world.
Oh, such famous words. So famous that they are generally scrawled on a piece of poster board to be held up in the seats in the end zone for every time a field goal or extra point is kicked in a football game. John 3:16.
But as with so many stories about Jesus – Context. Is. Everything.
This particular reading of this famous passage is odd in that we are barging in on the middle of a conversation. If we had no other information, we might well ask “so who was Jesus talking to – himself? His disciples? What kind of audience was this?”
And it turns out that these are the critical questions. The ones that might help us in our journey to see Jesus and maybe even understand the cross.
Let’s turn back a few verses, to verse one of this chapter 3 of the gospel of John. Let’s shed some light into this darkness, to borrow a phrase of Jesus.
Remember from last week’s readings, that Jesus has just caused a bit of an uproar by turning over tables and scattering people selling sacrificial animals in the temple. I imagine that word has gotten around about this.
And so in verse 1 of Chapter 3, Nicodemus comes to see Jesus.
Now, Nicodemus is a Pharisee. And already in the story, the Pharisees are feeling like Jesus is threatening their lofty status.
Nicodemus feels something different. However, he comes to see Jesus at night when he’s not likely to be seen.
Some might say Nicodemus is a chicken. Why doesn’t he just do this in broad daylight? But I would say that he’s prudent to a fault. I would say that his soul has been stirred by Jesus in a way that he’s never experienced before – but that he senses its danger as well. I give him credit for NOT turning away, but rather answering the yearnings of his heart while understanding the critical importance of choosing how and when to proceed.
But then his time with Jesus breaks things open for him that I truly believe changed his life. Mind you, this isn’t the last we hear of Nicodemus; he’s around after Jesus’ crucifixion too.
When Jesus talks about the serpent, he brings it up because Nicodemus will be quite familiar with that story of Moses. Jesus tends to zero in on where folks are at so that he can reach them more directly.
But ultimately for me, the thing Jesus says to Nicodemus that is profound for me is not John 3:16, but rather John 3:17:
“Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.”
I wonder if Nicodemus heard that night, the incredible love and grace that saturates that sentence.
God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Because everything that Jesus says after verse 16 seems so directed at Nicodemus.
It’s as if he is saying, look – I know that as a Pharisee you’re supposed to do things a certain way. But the God we worship, the God whom we call Yahweh, is not keeping score. God loves you, full stop. Even if you walk away from your Pharisee position, God still loves you, full stop.
You may have operated in darkness, Nicodemus, but you can move into the light. Your works will tell the truth about you.
Jesus’ words, I believe, are causing a tectonic-like shift in Nicodemus. He senses that the world he’s inhabited, the way he’s done his work to date, is not exactly in the light. But these words from Jesus tell him that he can absolutely turn and go a new way.
Instead of looking in at himself, Nicodemus is encouraged to look to Jesus. Just as Moses lifted up the serpent, so must the Son of Man be lifted up.
Luther called this self-absorption “curvatus in se” – curved in on the self. We might call it narcissism. Whatever its name, it is a state of being that completely ignores the needs of the neighbor and the world.
And this is what is really fundamentally changed by an encounter with Jesus.
Because now, while we might not fully understand the whole thing about the cross, what we are beginning to understand is that we no longer have to spend all our waking moments trying to prove to God, or to whatever we call the Divine, that we are worthy of love.
Because God. Moves. First.
God loves us, period. I know I say this a lot. And I do that because I think it’s good for you and I to be reminded of it, a lot!
Instead of being entirely absorbed with ourselves, thinking that we have to improve this or that or do a better job at something else in order for God to love us – God loves us before we are even born. “I formed you in your mother’s womb,” says the prophet.
For Nicodemus, this is truly earth-shattering. He’s grown up in a world where the law is EVERYTHING and you have to follow all the rules so that you are good enough.
But Jesus says to him, look, rules are fine. But if following the rules keeps you from loving and serving your neighbor, then those rules aren’t worth the papyrus or stone they’re written on.
Dear friends, in this particular time in history, in the hopefully-last-months of a global pandemic, and in a time where what we thought of as “normal” is up for discussion – Jesus’ words might give us some guidance in these days.
For Jesus, it’s about love. It always has been, and it always will be.
Following Jesus means fully embracing a working model of love. Love for oneself, for one’s friends, for one’s neighbors, and even for the stranger.
It reflects a shift in God’s way of being to the world, from retributive justice to restorative justice.
Retributive justice seeks retribution – payback.
Restorative justice seeks restoration – welcoming the sinner back into the community.
Are there lessons to be learned along the way – maybe even hard lessons? Yes, there are. Sometimes the best lessons involve a bit of pain. I learned the hard way that if I didn’t replace the cover on the crawl space access hole at my new house, I would fall into that hole.
And that mistake reminds me of Jesus’ words: those who do what is true come to the light.
Those who are willing to admit that they made a mistake, and want to do differently, walk into the light.
It’s not a one-and-done encounter, but rather a way of life. Even as Nicodemus was confounded by Jesus’ mention of being born again, the point was not that Nicodemus would understand from the start, but that he would keep asking questions.
That he would keep wondering, keep searching, keep journeying.
Because the breadth and depth and height of God’s love for us is beyond our ability to name, let alone comprehend.
Jesus does not say to the disciples, “come along and understand me completely.”
He says “follow me.”
It’s an invitation filled with potential for all sorts of things.
But the one thing that is guaranteed is the love of God through Christ.
For that is what God intended, all along.
And that is some really good news.
Amen.